Jun 29 2008
The Bachelorette Update: DeAnna is going to be One Lonely Bachelorette, without Graham
This week, the guys get to let their hair down and talk about how they feel and what has been going on, inside their heads, with regard to The Bachelorette and DeAnna. Will Graham have anything to say?
The Internet is absolutely loaded with tributes to Graham. The Bachelorette is a prime time reality competition. DeAnna Pappas is playing the game as The Bachelorette, by the rules; as much as she can. What sets this particular season apart from others is, DeAnna fell in love, then did not know what to do with this.
Let’s have a recap moment. This is the last scene from last week that we got to see DeAnna and Graham together.
Is it really fair to ask anyone to be a part of a major reality show, fall in love, then get married at the end of the show; to someone you need to get to know, intimately more before taking those vows?
I know many fans of The Bachelorette are into this for the game. Why not? This is what the show is really all about. A fairy tale romance, that is more fantasy, then reality. Root for your favorite contestant, etc. Except, this season of The Bachelorette took a few turns, no one really counted on. She really fell in love.
Who knows where things might have led in the real world, had Graham and DeAnna met; without a lot of cameras in their face? What we do know is, there was an instant attraction between both of them, that can’t be denied. You don’t see this happen in reality shows this often; not like this season of The Bachelorette.
So, DeAnna kicked into a higher gear and wanted the only guy that she had feelings for, to step up his pace. The problem was, Graham seemed shy and reserved. He could not give this show, or DeAnna the winning shot; to win the game. Maybe it was too much pressure? We will never know, what could have been. Not now. After all, it’s a reality show and has rules that need to be abided by.
What it looks like now is, DeAnna and The Bachelorette show, will have to keep plugging along for a conclusion, until someone else wins her as his bride? Sorry, this does not compute. It looks like DeAnna will now be going through some very determined moves to pick “that guy”, as a door prize.
So far, on The Bachelorette, we know what we have seen. If the other bachelors saw even half of what we did, would they still really want to marry DeAnna at the end of this show?
Tune in Monday at 8PM for ABC’s, The Bachelorette. It is DeAnna’s turn to find the true love of her life, choosing from a stable of real bachelors. Each week, another bachelor is eliminate from the show, until only one bachelor remains, to win DeAnna’s heart and marry her. We only have a few short weeks left to discover who DeAnna really loves!






Do you really think this was a bad move? I think Graham was a pretty big jerk…and way too into himself. Telling her she didn’t understand how he felt? Um…she was on the bachelor! If you don’t like it- leave. I think that was the best choice she could’ve made…the other three guys are great (especially Jason and Jeremy). Interesting views though…nobody I know feels this way! (though it is ridiculous that they’re expected to get married. Though the last few have been “this is a promise ring…not engagement ring”)
Well I think that deanna made a stupid damn decision because she had a chance with Jason but she didn’t take it she chose Jesse and now she wants Jason back fuck you damn stupid ass ladymake up your mind on who you want